Nestor's Cola

First off, The main thing you need to remember is give the girl the 3 A’s.

What you say?! You don’t know the 3 A’s? Well, that’s what I’m here for.

Attention
Affection
Appreciation

Holy shit. Anyone can do that. Simple in theory, harder in practice.

Paying attention seems easy enough, but as time goes on, you find it harder and harder to pay attention. We all know it’s true. There’s a limited amount of kinds of interactions that you can have with your fellow man, so it all starts to get a bit repetitive, doesn’t it? So… how does one pay attention, all the time, every time? Well, if you’re really into getting this girl to love you, you’ll follow active listening tips. Active listening involves a few key things. asking for clarification, following body language, eye contact, all that.

Affection is even more complicated; as we get closer and closer with our women, there’s a certain amount of affection that we display, but there comes a point where we just… stop. we become complacent and inattentive, we take them for granted. There’s two ways to address this issue that I’m a fan of.

1. Never stop pursuing her. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been dating for 30 minutes or 30 months. IMHO, if you still show an active affectionate interest in her, you’re going to get a bigger payoff.

2. Treat her like a bank. You’re making ‘deposits’ of love, affection, caring, trust, and all that. make sure that the deposits are more than the withdrawls.

Appreciation is even harder than maintaining consistient affection. People are constantly being taken for granted. At work, at home, in social groups, people are expected to behave in certain ways, regardless of whether or not they feel like it. women (IMHO) often feel that they lose their identity as a woman in favor of ‘a person’ or ‘an employee’ or ‘a mother’ or what have you. They like to be reminded of their sexuality, they like to be reminded of their beauty, their essential femaleness. Again, I refer back to the complacency we often gain after being with someone consistiently. They, like any other human being, enjoy being appreciated for themselves.
Women have a very fragile sense of ego and self-worth. Insecurity doesn’t even begin to touch the tip of the iceburg. When airbrushed, cultured and crafted sex symbols are on every billboard, it can be a little intimidating, especially if they feel like someone is beginning to become bored with them. Showing appreciation can be very difficult, and there’s no uniform way of doing it.

So simple, right? Follow these practices, and I guarantee that any woman you interact with (regardless of whether or not you’re romantically pursuing her) will always have a positive perspective on you.

As usual, it’s not rocket science. You just gotta be a little perceptive.

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The Book of Nestor: Chapter 1.

The majority of problems you can expect to see in your lifetime can be explained by this simple, easy to follow equation:
(10×1=10).

no matter how many different ways you do work the equation, 10 x 1 will ALWAYS equal 10. Try it standing on your head. It’s still 10.

This equation is representative of the daily grind we deal with in life. Are you familiar with the term ‘Practicing Insanity’? Practicing Insanity is simply this: doing the same thing, over and over again, simply because we know no different, or because we are afraid to break the bonds of order, complacency, and comfort zones. Often times, women will practice insanity by remaining with abusive boyfriends- or an even healthier example is leaving one… only to find that she’s with another.

People are creatures of habit. People like predictable things. People are predictable things. All people can be expected to follow along with a set pattern; the only work you have to do is discover the nature of the pattern.

People are inherently destructive creatures.

People are social, with women being the most social people of them all.

There is always a crucial lesson to be learned, and it usually happens to come from an unexpected source.

Always accept a person as is: specifically and thusly: They are people. omit everything: gender, race, sexual preference, color, creed, religious nature, social status. Accept them as an equal and only allow them to determine where they should stand with their actions.

Action speaks a helluva lot louder than words. so shut up.

A sound body will only come from a sound mind.

Fall in love with yourself.

If you cannot laugh at anything, you fail at life.

Alway strive for your full potential and never hold yourself back. to do anything less is cheating yourself, and setting yourself up for a miserable, empty life, filled with pain and failure.

Don’t be a victim of circumstance.

Hold pride in the things you do. Hold pride in yourself. Have some fucking dignity.

Love is a beautiful thing. Lust is a gibbering moron on a pogo stick. learn the difference.

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