On Charisma~
The problem with interacting with a charismatic person is that you often mix signals and see one thing while the person is projecting another thing entirely.
If you’re a charismatic person, you project a level of self comfort, amiability, social fortitude; you are, literally, the man of the hour, at any given hour. While the general society is out there with their Faces, you’re real, you’re in the scene, in the know, and you’re in touch with everything going on around you, utterly calm and in full posession of yourself, your knowledge, and your skills. You have an indomitable foundation that you operate from. You are seemingly unshakable in the face of adversity.
When you add a dominant, assertive personality on top of that, you are a leader. You take charge of any given situation, and people defer to you. You know when you take charge, and when to delegate. You know your strengths and limitations, and you know how to asess people’s stengths and limitations, and see beyond the boundaries that people have placed for themselves out of fear, and push them past their own boundaries. You, as a Dominant, instinctively know how much pressure it will take to push someone to the next level, or break them. You’re not afraid to admit weakness, or express feelings.
One common weakness is ambition. If your ambition gets out of hand, you will override the voice of reason and force yourself beyond your own true limitations, abandoning friends, family, true goals for some imagined goal that seems more satisfactory.
It’s more than difficult to overcome things like this. ironically, the things that hold us back ultimately make us stronger. maturing beyond personal fears, doubts, insecurities, and overwhelming ego and ambition is the true test of a man. Even in the face of adversity, we study, adapt, and eventually overcome through intelligence, maturity, and strong choices. The thought that we have a limitation is a crippling and useless thought. The only limitations we have are the limitations we place on ourselves.